Love Goddesses Compared
Aphrodite, Venus, Freyja and Hathor are the goddesses called "goddess of love" in four traditions. In the texts only Aphrodite's portion is love alone. Venus is Aphrodite with a dynasty to protect; Freyja is a goddess of love who also takes half the battle-dead; Hathor in the Egyptian texts is the Eye of Ra who slaughters mankind, and her "love" is a Greek identification.
Why this wins its question: Tests the label "goddess of love" against each goddess's own texts and shows, with the passages, which of the four the label actually fits.
Key takeaways
- Aphrodite and Venus are one goddess; the Roman difference is Aeneas and "empire without end".
- Freyja is the Norse goddess desired by giants and accused by Loki, and she also takes half the slain — a combination no Greek goddess has.
- Hathor's love is a Greek label; in the Egyptian texts read here she is the Eye of Ra who kills, and a mother and mistress of turquoise.
- The label goddess of love fits Aphrodite exactly, Venus nearly, Freyja partly, and Hathor only by interpretatio.
Claims
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Aphrodite's portion is love and nothing else. Born from the foam around the severed members of Heaven, she is allotted "the whisperings of maidens and smiles and deceits with sweet delight and love and graciousness" (Theog. 188–206); she "stirs up sweet passion in the gods and subdues the tribes of mortal men", and only Athena, Artemis and Hestia escape her (HH5 1–33). When Diomedes wounds her Zeus tells her "Not unto thee, my child, are given works of war; nay, follow thou after the lovely works of marriage" (Il. 5.330–351, 428–430).
Venus is Aphrodite plus a dynasty. The Greek Hymn already promises her a son "Aeneas ... who shall reign among the Trojans" (HH5 196–199). In Virgil she comes to Jupiter "her radiant eyes all dim with tears" for that son, and is answered with "empire without end" (Aen. 1.223–296); in Ovid she asks Jupiter to deify Aeneas and washes away his mortal part in the Numicius (Met. 14.581–608). Her love stories are Aphrodite's — Adonis (Met. 10.519–559), Mars in Vulcan's net (Met. 4.167–270) — but her politics are Roman.
Freyja is desired and desiring, and also a chooser of the dead. Thrym will return Thor's hammer only "if Freyja I win not to be my wife" (Thrymskvitha 7, 22–23); she owns the feather-dress and the Brisings' necklace, which bursts when she snorts with rage at the proposal (Thrymskvitha 3–4, 12); Loki says every god and elf present "as thy lover has lain" (Lokasenna 30–32). But she also "decrees who shall have seats in the hall; the half of the dead each day does she choose, and half does Othin have" (Grimnismol 14), and women in childbirth call on "Frigg and Freyja" (Oddrunargratr 8).
Hathor in the Egyptian texts read here is the Eye of Ra and a killer. Sent against the blasphemers, "the Eye of Ra, or Hathor, went in pursuit ... and slew them all", said "the work of vanquishing men was dear to her heart", and as Hathor-Sekhmet "waded about in the blood of men" until drunk on red beer; "at every festival of Hathor ever after 'sleepy beer' was made" (Budge Lit. ch. VII). She is also "my mother, the goddess Hathor, the lady of the turquoise" in Sinai (Budge Lit. ch. VIII), the Seven Hathors who decree a girl's death (Budge Lit. ch. XI), and the "firstborn son of Hathor" is the dead king in the Pyramid Texts (Budge Lit. ch. II).
The identification of Hathor with love is Greek. Herodotus, in the passage on cows sacred to Isis, notes "a temple of Aphrodite ... of great sanctity" at Atarbekhis (Hdt. 2.41.1–5) without naming the Egyptian goddess; Plutarch says Isis "is sometimes called Muth, and again Athyri", explaining Athyri as "the mundane house of Horus" (Plut. Is. 56). Neither writer describes Hathor as Aphrodite in so many words.
The four are not one type. Aphrodite's honour is love alone (Theog. 203–206); Venus adds the fate of Rome (Aen. 1.254–296); Freyja adds the battle-dead (Grimnismol 14); Hathor adds destruction and the dead king's motherhood (Budge Lit. ch. II, VII). Only the first two are the same goddess.
Love Goddesses Compared: Aphrodite, Venus, Freyja and Hathor
The phrase "goddess of love" is applied to all four. The texts fit it to one of them exactly, one nearly, one partly and one hardly at all.
Aphrodite: love as a portion
Hesiod is precise about what Aphrodite is for. Born from the foam around the severed members of Heaven, she walks to Cyprus with Eros and Desire, and "this honor she has from the beginning, and this is the portion allotted to her amongst men and undying gods — the whisperings of maidens and smiles and deceits with sweet delight and love and graciousness" (Theog. 188–206). The Hymn to Aphrodite makes her power universal but for three virgins (HH5 1–33), and even Zeus's "wise heart" is hers to mislead (HH5 36–39). Homer marks the limit from the other side: when she is wounded rescuing Aeneas, Zeus smiles and says "Not unto thee, my child, are given works of war" (Il. 5.428–430). Love, and only love.
Venus: love with a mission
Venus keeps every Greek story — Adonis (Met. 10.519–559), the net of Vulcan (Met. 4.167–270) — and adds a purpose. The seed is already in the Greek Hymn, where Aphrodite promises Anchises a son "Aeneas ... who shall reign among the Trojans, and children's children after him" (HH5 196–199). Virgil makes that the plot of Rome: Venus comes weeping to Jupiter on behalf of Aeneas and receives "empire without end" (Aen. 1.223–296); Ovid has her ask for and obtain his deification (Met. 14.581–608). Venus is Aphrodite as the ancestress of a state.
Freyja: love and the slain
Freyja's love-goddess credentials are clear in the poems. Thrym wants her as the price of the hammer (Thrymskvitha 7, 22–23); she has a feather-dress to lend and the Brisings' necklace to burst (Thrymskvitha 3–4, 12); Loki tells her that every god and elf in the hall "as thy lover has lain" (Lokasenna 30); women in labour invoke "Frigg and Freyja" (Oddrunargratr 8). But Grimnismol gives her a second office that Aphrodite never has: "the ninth is Folkvang, where Freyja decrees who shall have seats in the hall; the half of the dead each day does she choose, and half does Othin have" (Grimnismol 14). She rides to Valhall with a mortal lover disguised as a boar (Hyndluljoth 5–7) and is honoured with a shrine of stone reddened with blood (Hyndluljoth 10). "Norse Aphrodite" covers half of her.
Hathor: the Eye of Ra
In the Egyptian texts Budge translates, Hathor's great scene is a massacre. Sent by Ra against the men who mocked his age, "the Eye of Ra, or Hathor, went in pursuit of the blasphemers in the mountains, and slew them all"; she reports that "the work of vanquishing men was dear to her heart"; as Hathor-Sekhmet she wades three nights in blood, and is stopped only by seven thousand jars of red beer, after which "sleepy beer" is drunk at every festival of Hathor (Budge Lit. ch. VII). Elsewhere she is a mother — the dead king is "the firstborn son of Hathor" (Budge Lit. ch. II), a pharaoh sends gifts to "my mother, the goddess Hathor, the lady of the turquoise" in Sinai (Budge Lit. ch. VIII) — and a fate: the Seven Hathors decree that Bata's wife "shall die by the sword" (Budge Lit. ch. XI). The love-goddess reading is what Greeks saw. Herodotus mentions a temple of Aphrodite at Atarbekhis without naming its Egyptian occupant (Hdt. 2.41.5); Plutarch says Isis is "sometimes called ... Athyri" (Plut. Is. 56). The equation is real in later cult; it is not in these texts.
Criteria
| Criterion | Aphrodite | Venus | Freyja | Hathor |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Portion | Love alone (Theog. 203–206) | Love and Rome (Aen. 1.254–296) | Love and half the slain (Grimnismol 14) | Eye of Ra, mother, fate (Budge Lit. ch. II, VII, XI) |
| Signature scene | Wounded, told to keep to marriage (Il. 5.428–430) | Pleading for Aeneas (Aen. 1.223–296) | Refusing Thrym, necklace bursting (Thrymskvitha 12) | Wading in blood, drunk on beer (Budge Lit. ch. VII) |
| Mortal lover | Anchises (HH5) | Anchises, Adonis (Met. 10.519–559) | Ottar (Hyndluljoth 6–7) | — |
| War | Excluded (Il. 5.428–430) | — | Chooses the dead (Grimnismol 14) | Slaughters mankind (Budge Lit. ch. VII) |
| Greek equation | — | = Aphrodite | — | Aphrodite's temple noted, no name (Hdt. 2.41.5); "Athyri" of Isis (Plut. Is. 56) |
Is Freyja the Norse Aphrodite?
For the desire, yes; for Folkvang, no. The closest Greek parallel to a goddess who is both desired and a chooser of the dead is not Aphrodite but Persephone — which is a different comparison.